Insta-detox; my journey as a creator

Chayla Marie
2 min readNov 20, 2023

Being a part of the Instagram generation, navigating the highs and lows of this platform has been a defining aspect. However, I made a conscious choice to distance myself from Instagram, except for fulfilling my current commitments. This decision will shape my path as a determined and successful creator and influencer.

Stepping away from Instagram, a platform that’s been both my playground and endless hell, wasn’t an impulsive move. I, value genuine connections and meaningful content over worshipping the algorithm for likes and follows.

This choice will also open doors for me to explore beyond the confines of a platform ran by happy dictators. Putting all my effort into Instagram has been a soul sucking experience. I should have walked away after losing everything the second time, but I’m stubborn and thought Instagram still had some respect. I was wrong, SO wrong- there’s nothing to respect about Instagram. I took screenshots to prove they’re a broken system- more on those next post😉

Above all, this decision is for my mental well-being. The constant algorithm issues, fighting against the AI, and backhanded congratulations, on social media can take a toll on mental health. Stepping back is a huge step towards self-care and prioritizing my sleep and peace that I’ve sacrificed for over a year straight-in a space that can sometimes feel overwhelming with attitudes and bitchiness. The entitlement and envy are pathetic.

However, I have an exciting announcement to share: I’ll be housing all my collaborations, creative content, and updates right here on my blog forevermore! This blog will be THE place for all things related to my creative journey, where I’ll continue to share my passions, collaborations, and personal growth.

This isn’t an endpoint; it’s a new chapter in my journey as a creator. It’s a chance to grow, discover new passions, and redefine success on my own terms.

In a job where success seems tied to a constant online presence, choosing to step away is the answer I keep returning to— defiance, independence, values, and a more balanced and fulfilling creative life lead me to this point. I love inspiring and being inspired. I share my connections and have no ill intents, no envy, and no bad feelings.

The cliché definition of insanity might be doing the same thing and expecting different results, but sometimes, the most rational choice is to break away from the freaking sheep and create a path that that right for ourselves. I personally will never conform to an idea or standard if it’s not right for me.

Xx Chayla

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Chayla Marie

❤ Hi, I’m Chayla. Writer by day, Kbeauty influencer by night. Step into my world, abuse survivor, VIP model/ and lover of everything kawaii; IG chaylaxmariex❤